Her first answer is for the first question which came from comment #1 (screen name begins with a 'b'):
"You had to be strong early on. You are still maintaining that place of strength but the need for it has passed. You had to 'grow up' too soon for whatever reason. So that child with wonder and magic in her heart got lost along the way. If you could find ways to reconnect with that child and all the tools she holds, you'd find that you easily reconnect with spirit, too. It's safe now. Start small. Begin by asking the child, 'what would I do/want right now?' And then indulge safely and gently."
Her second answer is to the question from comment #3 (screen name begins with 'h'):
"See the world through the eyes of a child. That will take you there!"